The Center for the Study of Long Distance Relationships 

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Information about The Center

 

"The Center is an online clearinghouse of authoritative information about long distance relationships for separated couples, researchers, clinicians, educators, and the media."

 

The Center for the Study of Long Distance Relationships began in 1997 as an informal connection between researchers and clinicians.   Founded by Dr. Guldner The Center first arose from a need to integrate research on separated couples from multiple fields including Psychiatry, Clinical psychology, social psychology, sociology, marriage and family therapy, social work, communication, and military medicine.  The individuals in these fields often were unaware of the research being done by their colleagues.  Each field has it's own journals and few individuals had access to or routinely reviewed journals outside of their specialty.  This lack of integration substantially impedes our understanding of long distance relationships. 

 

In early 2003, after publishing his book Long Distance Relationships: The Complete Guide,   Dr. Guldner heard from many researchers and clinicians that there was a need for a single clearinghouse of information on separated relationships.  Thus, The Center moved onto the internet.  This move also allowed couples in long distance relationships to easily access authoritative information about their non-traditional relationship.

 

After The Center was posted on the internet, Dr. Guldner received numerous requests to expand the site to accommodate educators and clinicians as well as the media.  The Center now receives approximately 600 visitors a day - 50% are couples in long distance relationships, 20% researchers or educators, 20% counselors or therapists, and about 10% members of the print or broadcast media.

 

We hope you enjoy The Center and we hope you find information to help you in your endeavors.

 


INFORMATION ABOUT DR. GREGORY GULDNER, MD, MS

Dr. Gregory Guldner, a graduate of Stanford Medical School and Purdue University’s Clinical Psychology Program, is the leading authority on long distance relationships.  He has spent 17 years researching these relationships and is the author of the largest and most comprehensive study of long distance relationships ever completed.  He has published numerous articles on relationships and sexuality in general and long distance relationships in particular.  He serves as a peer reviewer and expert for multiple professional journals and he has personal experience in separated relationships, having married his long distance partner of four years.  Dr. Guldner also serves as an officer in the Army Reserve with expertise in military related separations.  He was deployed to Iraq in 2006 with the Army and provided workshops on military separations while overseas.  He is the founder and director for The Center for the Study of Long Distance Relationships in Southern California.

Dr. Guldner first became interested in long distance relationships as a graduate student in a PhD program in clinical psychology at Purdue University.  At the time he himself was in a long distance relationship. Curious about the research he began to review the available information.  Finding surprisingly little about the topic in the psychology journals Dr. Guldner began reviewing journals in sociology, communications, and the military services.  Noting a clear need for better studies on the topic Dr. Guldner began a two year project that became the most comprehensive study of separated relationships to date.  His team examined over 200 long distance relationships and compared them to 200 geographically close relationships on hundreds of topics.  Their research looked at how frequently long distance couples break up, how intimate their relationships felt, how likely they were to "cheat" on one another, and hundreds of other items -- all in all over 130,000 pieces of information were gathered.   This study became Dr. Guldner's Masters Thesis and was published in two professional journals. 

After leaving Purdue University, Dr. Guldner entered medical school at Stanford University, during which time he continued to review the available studies on separated relationships and publish on the topic.  In 1997 he created The Center to help organize information about long distance relationships among other researchers.  He also wrote the first draft of Long Distance Relationships: The Complete Guide which took six more years of revisions and research before he felt it had adequately represented the research in a way understandable to those couples actually in long distance relationships.

Currently, Dr. Guldner spends much of his time reviewing research relevant to separated couples and updating the website.  He is a peer reviewer for several professional journals and he assists with interviews for the broadcast and print media.  He has been working with the Army assisting with training for their chaplains in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom.  Dr. Guldner is also an assistant professor of emergency medicine and pediatrics and the research director for the emergency medicine residency program at Loma Linda University Medical Center in Southern California.  He is married to Amy, his long distance partner of 4 years prior to their moving together, and he has a son Gavin born in 2004 and a daughter McKenna born in 2001. 

Dr. Guldner's Media Experience

Dr. Guldner has been interviewed by numerous publications , radio, and television programs including:

CNN International (live), Time Magazine, Good Morning America, Cosmpolitan, Discovery Channel, Men's Health, Wall Street Journal, Modern Maturity, Seventeen, Newsweek, NewsTalk Radio 106, Beep Magazine, London Sunday Times Magazine, Washington Post, Viva Magazine, Glow Magazine, Morning Calm Magazine, Women's Health, True Love Magazine, Detroit Free Press, Insight Magazine, San Jose Mercury News, Baltimore Sun, Jane Magazine, The Love Zone Talk Show, Business 2.0 Magazine, MORE Magazine, Janesville Gazette, Vega Magazine, Echo Magazine, Abroad Magazine, Washington Square News, Tango Magazine, Calgary Sun, Minneapolis Star Tribune, Eve Magazine, Wired Magazine, New Jersey Record, Old Farmer's Almanac, Syracuse University Magazine, Jay Play Magazine, Knight Ridder Tribune, Military Spouse, Port Heuron Times Herald, Florida State View, University of Florida News, WPSU-FM

See Dr. Guldner's CNN Interview here.

 
 

 

 

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